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Affairs with married men and happiness just don’t mix.
When you find yourself falling in love with a married man, life can seem so much simpler and easy in some ways, but there’s always a dark side to it.
And a woman will always love the attention, even if it comes from someone who’s already married or seeing someone.
Is this some evolutionary flaw in women or some mistake they end up making over and over again?
No one can tell. But you all know how it starts, don’t you? It starts when we least expect it.
Love is a funny thing. I don’t really know how women make the first move while falling in love with a married man, but I’m going to tell you about how married men try to hit on you and reasons to put the affair aside.
The married man wants to fill a void
That marrird man just want fill a void with you. However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long. This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as you automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).
By this time, you arr already aware of the fact that he is unhappy in his marriage and the more time you spends with him, he makes sure to plea you case as to why he should be with you instead. The man more than likely plays into this often times telling you things such as “I wish I could have met you years ago”. This makes you feel as if the only thing keeping you guyd apart is the ring on his finger. Unfortunately, even if you're not ready to admit it, your subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.
Just know it married men do not leave their wives!!
Sure there are a few people who actually leave their wives for some reasons. But for the most part, he is not leaving. Although he gets to the point where he is saying he loves the side chick, he is usually more in love with his kids. In a loveless marriage with small children, the kids become more of a silver lining and the focus of all the reasons to deal with the unhappiness of no sex and conversation that only revolves around household duties. Often the fear of what others will think will not let him do it, as the man does not want to become the “bad guy” in their eyes as the daddy who left in their early years.
Stop sleeping with the married man
The worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes. The woman goes through self-esteem issues and starts to wonder why she is settling for less than what she deserves. If the man is not a total ass, he will feel the guilt every time he looks in his wife’s eyes, and he will try to ease the guilt by taking her out on a date, or suggesting a family vacation, etc. This in turn will make the you woman feel even more humiliated as you thought he didn’t like his wife like that.
The relationship has a glass ceiling
Nobody wants to be in a relationship that doesn’t grow. Building a life with someone with constant progression and growth is necessary for a healthy relationship/living. Just because he says he loves you does not mean that he will do what it takes to prove it to you. May the wife can’t call him or see him when he wants to. Eventually those sneaky late night phone calls end abruptly with “I gotta go!” and a click, leaving yoi wondering all night if his cover was blown or not, and whether or not you will hear from him after that. A relationship will never flourish if built from the ground up on sneaking around, mistrust, and false hope.
This is how you can stop that affair with that married man:
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Dating a married man can be one of the most confusing affairs that a woman can ever have. Affairs with married men can wreck you, give you a bad name and ruin your own life. And yet, most women can’t help but fall for them.
Affairs with married men and happiness just don’t mix.
When you find yourself falling in love with a married man, life can seem so much simpler and easy in some ways, but there’s always a dark side to it.
And a woman will always love the attention, even if it comes from someone who’s already married or seeing someone.
Is this some evolutionary flaw in women or some mistake they end up making over and over again?
No one can tell. But you all know how it starts, don’t you? It starts when we least expect it.
Love is a funny thing. I don’t really know how women make the first move while falling in love with a married man, but I’m going to tell you about how married men try to hit on you and reasons to put the affair aside.
The married man wants to fill a void
That marrird man just want fill a void with you. However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long. This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as you automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).
By this time, you arr already aware of the fact that he is unhappy in his marriage and the more time you spends with him, he makes sure to plea you case as to why he should be with you instead. The man more than likely plays into this often times telling you things such as “I wish I could have met you years ago”. This makes you feel as if the only thing keeping you guyd apart is the ring on his finger. Unfortunately, even if you're not ready to admit it, your subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.
Just know it married men do not leave their wives!!
Sure there are a few people who actually leave their wives for some reasons. But for the most part, he is not leaving. Although he gets to the point where he is saying he loves the side chick, he is usually more in love with his kids. In a loveless marriage with small children, the kids become more of a silver lining and the focus of all the reasons to deal with the unhappiness of no sex and conversation that only revolves around household duties. Often the fear of what others will think will not let him do it, as the man does not want to become the “bad guy” in their eyes as the daddy who left in their early years.
The worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes. The woman goes through self-esteem issues and starts to wonder why she is settling for less than what she deserves. If the man is not a total ass, he will feel the guilt every time he looks in his wife’s eyes, and he will try to ease the guilt by taking her out on a date, or suggesting a family vacation, etc. This in turn will make the you woman feel even more humiliated as you thought he didn’t like his wife like that.
The relationship has a glass ceiling
Nobody wants to be in a relationship that doesn’t grow. Building a life with someone with constant progression and growth is necessary for a healthy relationship/living. Just because he says he loves you does not mean that he will do what it takes to prove it to you. May the wife can’t call him or see him when he wants to. Eventually those sneaky late night phone calls end abruptly with “I gotta go!” and a click, leaving yoi wondering all night if his cover was blown or not, and whether or not you will hear from him after that. A relationship will never flourish if built from the ground up on sneaking around, mistrust, and false hope.
This is how you can stop that affair with that married man:
1. Tell him "Action speaks louder than words" and if he loves you he should want to make you happy. You are clearly not happy being stuck in a limbo state and he really should be willing to meet your needs. (If he cannot adhere to that, you know his words are just mere excuses)
2. Tell yourself again and again: "If this man loves you, he should respect you instead of knowingly two timing you".
3. His words will not change your situation. You are not even 'waiting' for anything. Refer to rule number 1.
4. The best and fastest way to forget him is to cut contacts (Physically first, emotionally comes later). I'm going to expand on this because I know it's easier said than done. But trust me, if you do it now it is the FASTEST way to forget him. Timeline is: 2 - 3 weeks and you will be on the borderline of being normal, slowly picking up. 2 months later you will be glad you did this.
5. Know that if he really loves you, he will look for you - without the baggage and the wedding ring this time. Otherwise, you would've saved so much time, some pride and some heartbreak.
6. Start being active in your life - take dance lessons/classes or something. Meet up with your friends and use those friends as your 'support group'.
7. Start dating again. You and I both know you'd rather sleep on the couch than merely having the thoughts ofdating someone you don't love. You are still attached to that married man of course. BUT! At the very least this should distract you from being so attached to this married man.
Caution: Do not fall into a rebound relationship - dating is good, but don't lead them on too much if you don't intend to love them...[Read: Why you must stop accepting conditional love]
In time, you will seriously find a better love, someone who you can tell the whole world: he is yours. And most importantly, someone who wants to be with you FULL TIME.
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