What Happen After A Great Sex With Your Partner

It is true that a man and a woman never achieve complete comfort with each other if they haven't been intimate. Until the man has penetrated the woman in s*xual intercourse, there's always at least a slight awareness of one's own curiosity, and of the other individual's likely curiosity too.

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There are also change of mood, feeling of regret, hating coming either the man or woman after s*x. Why?[Read: Handling Jealous Boyfriend]

According to psychologists, Great s*x is nature's way of helping us to bond and show affection for our partner, but why do we abuse our post sex-friendship?

Godspower and Cynthia were once good friends, but what happens after they had s*x, they begin to regret that they got intimate. For whatever reason it just didn’t feel right. It’s a shame that this should ruin the good thing they had over the years.

There is nothing else in the world  that complicates things between two people like s*x. S*x is so fraught with our most powerful emotions – love, lust, and jealousy – that it can make people totally irrational. Because of this, it’s no surprise that s*x often makes friendships seem impossible after the deed is done. It doesn’t have to be this way. If two people can avoid the common pitfalls, they can maintain and even strengthen their post-sex friendship.[Read:How to Overcome Breakup Trauma]

Because Penetration changes the dynamic between man and woman ,most people have an instinctive understanding that once a woman has submitted to a man in s*x, her mood changes to him, either softening or (if she experiences s*x regret) sometimes hardening.  Like i stated above, If two people can avoid the common pitfalls, they can maintain and even strengthen their post-sex friendship and continue swimming inlove and happiness.

4 Tips to strengthen your post-sex relationship to stay happy.

1. Behave the same you do before after sex it: Don't just transform into someone else because now you've ejaculated or reached your orgasm. This is act of "used and dumb" as by most women. Your partner view it as a trick to get them to bed and now that you've got it, the REAL you comes out... and that isn't the right person he/she wants to date. To avoid this, make sure you're the same you were after s*x.[Read: Simple way to attract Mr Right]

2. Get breakfast if he/she stays over: preferably after great morning s*x. Breakfast is a nice gesture that says, "I'm not in a hurry to kick you out / get out of here," reassure your partner that you don't see him/her as a bad decision and you aren't regretting having slept together.

3. Multiple rounds helps: having more than one round of s*x is basically passing message to your partner, "I didn't just need to get off, and that's it - I'm legitimately attracted to you, you turn me on, and I want more than a single round with you." Obviously, the more times you have s*x, and the longer you spend having it, the stronger the effect, but even if you can't muster a lot, going two quick rounds is much better than one.[Read: Undeniable differences between the man you marry and the guy you date]

4. Nice follow up text also help: I'd advice you wait 2 to 6 hours after he or she left you, (but don't forget early morning & late night texting before/during bed time.) This'll be right around the period where your partner started to feel a little insecure about how you might've really felt about him/her (do you think she's a slut?, do you think he is rough or nice on bed?).

You can make it happen. Staying friends after having a great sex will take some work, but then again, all types of relationship take some work. Don’t allow your experience  to ruin the beautiful relationship you can still have.

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