What you should learn from Linda Ikeji and Mr Ayedee story
Yeah Linda ikeji blog was removed and restored after 24hrs for plagiarism. well I'm not here for that report (you can read here ) but in a case like this, reasonable ones will learn some good lesson from it while others will wait till it happen to them before they will learn. Linda is one of the top successful bloggers in Nigeria today but I guess some people contributed to her success.After reading what she posted on her blog on how her blog was removed and restored + the person that masterminded the whole thing, I was inspired to drop this piece of words to those who cares to avoid what happen to Linda, u might not be a blogger but what happened to her can happen to anybody regardless of you area because it was more of informal than formal as most of us thought. Though problems can naturally come but believe it most of the problems we encounter in life are cause by us (whether knowingly or unknowing) You will tempted to ask me "how" , wait after reading what I have then you will know how.
How to defeat that shyness in you.
Shyness, I learned, is a problem you must consciously take action to mentally and emotionally progress out of. According to oxford advanced learner's dictionary. Shy is a feeling of nervous or embarrassed about meeting and speaking to other people. it is a feeling or lets say a state of mind one thinks that he can't be able to do something because he is not ready or because he is not capable of doing it or he cannot be able to fit in those place (inferiority complex).
How to Attract the Right People into your life.
We attract people at our common level of woundedness or our common level of emotional health. This means that if you want to attract a healthy, loving persons, you need to become that healthy person first. This does not mean that you need to have attained some imagined level of perfection, but it does mean that the kind of energy you project has everything to do with the kind of person you attract. As a business owner, you need to attract the right clients to your practice. As a friend and a lover, you also need to attract the right soul mates into your life.
Though, there are no much different in these two aspects of life when it comes to attraction. Ok get it now, when you start making changes to my life, both categories/aspects seemed to fall into place at exactly the same time.
Though, there are no much different in these two aspects of life when it comes to attraction. Ok get it now, when you start making changes to my life, both categories/aspects seemed to fall into place at exactly the same time.
Girls let's be honest - All Men are the Same( See Reasons)
Ok.. Ladies and gentlemen,I don come with an interesting discussion/post but you have to rethink on the title of this post bcos it's opposite of the main post. I'm tired of hearing this phrase " all men are the same" She who said all men are the same, please i have a question for you, Have you tried all men? Have you tried me? You probably go for similar guys always.
In What Kind of Relationship are you in? Give and take or Give and Give
Real Joy Vs Shallow Happiness By Daxx Bondoc-
We live in a time where “personal happiness” is the ultimate good. It has triumphed over all other goods, even Goodness Himself, God. And the media is doing a really good job promoting this new god.
There is nothing wrong about personal happiness, in its right context. God commands us to be a cheerful giver, so we know He is not a kill joy. But when personal happiness becomes king, that is where the problem starts.
When our personal happiness goes before charity and God, it becomes “personal selfishness”. People have sacrificed everything and everyone for the sake of finding personal happiness (even though they themselves do not know what it is).
We live in a time where “personal happiness” is the ultimate good. It has triumphed over all other goods, even Goodness Himself, God. And the media is doing a really good job promoting this new god.
There is nothing wrong about personal happiness, in its right context. God commands us to be a cheerful giver, so we know He is not a kill joy. But when personal happiness becomes king, that is where the problem starts.
When our personal happiness goes before charity and God, it becomes “personal selfishness”. People have sacrificed everything and everyone for the sake of finding personal happiness (even though they themselves do not know what it is).
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